When the Homeland Became Narrow… and Exile Opened: A Journey of Life and the Search for Truth

 

When the Homeland Became Narrow… and Exile Opened: A Journey of Life and the Search for Truth

By Adnan Mahdi Al-Taie

Life has never been a path strewn with roses, yet it has always been worth telling. From the noise of the early cities to the silence of exile, from the restlessness of youth to the contemplation of old age, I have lived my years journeying between dream and longing — between a homeland that still dwells within me despite the distance, and a memory that refuses to fade. At every stop along the way, I learned that what remains of a person is not the wealth or status they gathered, but the kindness they left in people’s hearts, and the words they scattered to light the paths of others. Today, as I live in a home filled with kind faces and compassionate hearts, I realize that every ending is but another form of beginning — that within silence lies a chance to speak, and within speaking, a release from the weight of time. I write this story not to boast of what has passed, but to preserve what remains of the light of memory — to offer it to those I love, and to anyone who might find in my tale a small mirror reflecting the meanings of patience, dignity, and longing for one’s roots. Life, as I see it now, is nothing but a long journey toward inner peace — a journey we begin with our first cry, and that only ends when we reconcile with ourselves and say to the passing years: You were beautiful, despite everything.

I was born in Baghdad in 1941, a city that resembled a great mother, yet in her heart carried an unbearable harshness. I was a child who dreamed of freedom, and a man who pursued meaning among philosophy, history, and religion. I believed in one God, yet in the texts of faith, I found only the contradictions of the human mind. I said it plainly: if God had willed a religion for us, it would have been singular, without dispute, without bloodshed. Yet my words were like a sword upon my neck. The homeland I loved became a burden that weighed heavily on my soul. On a dark night, when the echoes of threat knocked upon my door, I realized that I had to choose either bury myself alive in silence or depart in search of a sky wide enough for my breath. I left Baghdad, leaving behind decades steeped in bitterness. I arrived in Australia, in distant Melbourne, and there I discovered what I had never known: freedom is not a slogan, but life; dignity is not a dream, but reality. In exile, I found my lost humanity, even as I aged and fell ill, sitting beside my wife whose memories and features Alzheimer’s had stolen. Yet we were not alone; around us were hands as white as angel wings, offering care without price, redefining the meaning of mercy itself. I began writing, reviewing the chapters of my life, removing the dust of time and exile. I excavated my eighty years of memories, discovering myself living between past and present, as if all time were intertwined in a strange unity. With my wife, whose mind sometimes wandered into darkness after our children drifted away, I began learning how to reclaim my humanity in caring for those around me, and through our interactions with the staff who gave us love, dignity, and attention as if we were one family. Old age, to me, became like a bank account: I drew from it all the memories and experiences I had stored throughout life. I lived on the fragrance of those deep and beautiful moments, following five principles: to free my heart from hatred, to free my mind from worries, to live simply and contentedly, to give more, and to hope modestly. I realized that beautiful moments do not repeat themselves, and that happiness is earned from enduring pain and suffering, from the sorrow my wife endured, and from the love, dignity, and serenity we found in the nursing home, far from the clamor of the world. Our family life was another tale of pain and waiting. Our four children each chose a different path, yet our eldest, the one we loved and guided since childhood, grew distant in heart and cold in conduct. “Even you, my son!” I cried in solitude, questioning divine justice, wondering how love and tenderness could be met with ingratitude. Despite the pain, I learned that true justice lies in inner peace, and that loyalty may not always come from children, but from our ability to respect ourselves and honor the goodness of those around us. Throughout all this, I never lost my philosophical curiosity nor my passion for the search for truth. My faith in God did not weaken; it became a journey between reason and soul, between text and experience, between humanity and existence. I saw that religions, as products of the human mind across the ages, reflect the spiritual and social needs of humanity, and that living culture is what defends humanity, standing against rigidity and stagnation. I realized that the true intellectual is the one who resists darkness with awareness, joy, and freedom, and that the search for truth is a continuous journey toward knowledge, justice, and beauty. Now, as I sit in my quiet corner, contemplating my fate as if I were a tragic hero in a play I did not choose, I smile with a touch of irony: my homeland pushed me away, yet it gave me a narrative I could not have written without pain. From my exile, I smile wryly: they constricted my life, yet God opened for me a distant land wider than any dream, where I found love, dignity, serenity, knowledge, and the right to live—a place where souls meet and merge without limits, and true happiness can be attained, even at the end of life, with those I love, in the city I came to know only by name: Melbourne, Australia.

Appendix: Biography of Adnan Mahdi Al-Taie – Question and Answer

Q: Who are you?

A: My name is Adnan Mahdi Al-Taie. I was born in 1941 in Baghdad, Iraq.

Q: What is your educational background?

A: I graduated in 1963 from the College of Languages – University of Baghdad, with a major in German language.

Q: Why did you seek asylum?

A: I faced intellectual persecution in Iraq because of my secular, leftist, democratic, and socialist views. I believe in one God, but I do not believe that all religions come from Him. I see religions as a product of human thought, with many contradictions. I wanted freedom of thought, so I came to Australia to live in dignity.

Q: What are your main interests?

A: I am a researcher in philosophy, religion, and history. I also write free verse poetry and short stories.

Q: Do you have published books?

A: Yes, I published around seven books in Iraq, including:

-  The Fourth Modernity: Post-Globalization.

-  The Return of Metaphysics.

-  Views on Religions.

-  Philosophy of Concepts and Its Applications.

-  Reflections on Human Thought – Terrorism as a Model.

-  Statement of the birth of contemporary human philosophy under the title (Philosophy ofHuman Light).

I also published many articles in Iraqi newspapers since 2004.

Q: Do you have unpublished studies?

A: Yes, I shared some only on my blog and Facebook, such as:

-  Exit from the Absurdity of Meaning.

-  Critical Realism and the Illusion of Democracy.

-  Climate Control.

-  A Critical Study on Homosexuality.

-  Marx in the Age of Algorithms – Towards a Flexible Marxism.

-  Analysis of Feminist Poetry.

Q: What about poetry and stories?

A: I have around two collections of free verse poetry and several short stories.

Q: Which countries have you visited?

A: I traveled to Britain, Germany, France, Italy, Spain, and several Arab countries. Since 2019, I have settled in Melbourne, Australia, with my family.

Q: How many children and grandchildren do you have?

A: I have four children, all married, and together they have given me ten grandchildren.

Q: How do you see your life today?

A: Today I live with my wife in a nursing home. She suffers from Alzheimer’s disease, and I fought colon cancer and had heart surgery. In Australia, we found safety, medical care, and dignity. The doctors and nurses gave us free care, and here we finally understood the real meaning of human dignity.

Dedication

To those who have turned listening into an art, and storytelling into a way of life, and words into bridges that connect hearts across time... To the Beyond Words team, with love and deep appreciation.

Words of Gratitude

I extend my heartfelt thanks and sincere appreciation to Beyond Words and its dedicated team of volunteers for this noble humanitarian initiative, which granted me the opportunity to share and preserve my life’s journey with honesty and respect.

The listening, dialogue, and support I received from you have been a profound human experience—one that filled my heart with warmth and hope, reminding me that words have a soul, and memories, a life that never fades.

With deepest gratitude and respect, Adnan Mahdi Al-Taie

“The most beautiful thing about a story is that it is told, and the most beautiful thing about a memory is finding someone who listens with love.”

 

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